Video games do not teach us to kill

It bothers me how many frickin people say video games teach children how to kill. I thought about it and then started calculating weight and other factors. For a child to kill someone even at a young age a low caliber pistol would have to be used. Think about how heavy weapons are.
I beleive that people need to stop beleiving this and instead think about what it does help them do. It helps them blow off steam after school. It let's them get their aggresion out, and most of all it allows them to do stuff they normaly would not do. If we are going to blame anything on violence, why not blame real life? Or better yet how the child is responding to others?
We need to take time to make sure that the kids are safe and if they are being bullied or what not, take control now. Life isn't fair but guns aren't the answer.